How to conker parenting

Collect and play conkers.

Weekend project

An old-school autumn classic
~1-2 hrs

The original playground craze that returns every autumn – even though most schools have now banned it. Collecting and playing with shiny, swinging conkers is a fun way to spend an afternoon – even if it comes with the occasional sibling scuffle.

How to try it:

  • Hunt for the biggest, shiniest conkers under a local horse chestnut tree.
  • Sort your collection and pick a few favourites.
  • Parent step: drill a hole through the middle of each chosen conker.
  • Thread a strong string or shoelace through the hole and knot it securely.

Reminder of the rules:

  • Decide who goes first.
  • One player dangles their conker still while the other swings to try and break it.
  • Alternate turns after each swing.
  • Keep going until one breaks – the winner is the one that survives.

Beware: favourites will break, and this can be emotional (for both parents and children), so have a few back-ups ready.

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